Communication in Marriage Ritual
Communication in marriage can sometimes be a struggle. One partner might be trying hard to express themselves. While the other partner might be trying hard to avoid getting into an argument. Leaving both partners frustrated. And nobody’s needs are getting met!
This is a common dance many couples get in. Good news is, the dance can change.
If you’ve read some of my past blogs, you’ll know I’m big on rituals. I think they are very important for relationships. So here is one ritual I think can help communication in marriage thrive.
Communication in Marriage Fun Ritual You Can Do Now
Starting today. Right now…you can begin this communication in marriage ritual. It doesn’t have to be laborious, in fact, it can be really fun. Try to make it into something that’s meaningful for you both. And fun for you both so that it can become a ritual that you both enjoy and get meaning out of.
Communication in Marriage Tip
Become as excited as you are to see your spouse as you are your pet!
How many reading this have a dog? If you do you know how excited they get when you come home. They rush to give you the best greeting when you walk in the door.
Wouldn’t it be great if in your marriage, you and your spouse could greet each other in way that makes you feel special. That makes you feel welcomed as you come home.
This simple change in how you greet each other can be a wonderful ritual that truly impacts your relationship. And can impact the rest of your day or evening together…try it and see…
By trying this one thing, communication in marriages have the potential to begin changing. To begin creating a “safe place” where partners want to “come home” to. Where “home” feels good and welcoming. Where “home” is a sanctuary after a long day…
By: Anna McElearney, LMFT, LPC, NCC
Blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only.
